For many in our culture today, the primary requirements for evolving, in our human condition are:

1. De-emphasize, marginalize and suppress any unique ideological claim or distinction about ourselves, that might offend, or risk conflict with others...

2. For those who refuse to surrender in any manner, their unique ideological claims and distinctions, still be fully, and non-judgmentally accepted by everyone else...

Unless of course you are a Christian, that faithfully practices a relatively orthodox expression of your  faith.